The Foundations Of Game / Основы игры

THE PARADIGM SHIFTS
PARADIGM SHIFT #1: SUCCESS WITH WOMEN IS A “SKILL-SET”. IF YOU WANT THE “SPECIFIC” GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS, LEARN TO BECOME GOOD WITH WOMEN “IN GENERAL”.
PARADIGM SHIFT #2: YOUR LOOKS AND MONEY ARE NOT OVERLY IMPORTANT. IT’S ABOUT THE QUALITIES SHE SEES IN YOUR PERSONALITY, AND EMOTIONS SHE EXPERIENCES WHEN YOU’RE AROUND.
PARADIGM SHIFT #3: MEN EXPERIENCE ATTRACTION LIKE A LIGHTSWITCH, WOMEN EXPERIENCE ATTRACTION LIKE A VOLUME KNOB. (attraction happens fast. It is always easier to get a new girl to like you than change an existing perception.)
PARADIGM SHIFT #4: WOMEN CATEGORIZE YOU AS “LOVER” OR “PROVIDER”, AND HAVE TWO MODES OF BEHAVIOUR DEPENDING ON WHICH ONE YOU ARE.
PARADIGM SHIFT #5: WOMEN ENJOY SEX AS MUCH AS MEN DO, AND WILL HOOK UP IF YOU DON’T HAVE A JUDGEMENTAL “DOUBLE STANDARD” ABOUT SEX.
PARADIGM SHIFT #6: TRADITIONAL DATING IS USUALLY LOGICAL, AWKWARD, AND SLOW. WOMEN MAKE DECISIONS ABOUT SEX EMOTIONALLY AND QUICKLY, AND DECISIONS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS LOGICALLY AND SLOWLY.
PARADIGM SHIFT #7: THE STRONGEST POSITION TO GET A GIRLFRIEND IS TO BE THE LOVER AND THEN SHIFT INTO THE ROLE OF PROVIDER IF YOU CHOOSE.
PARADIGM SHIFT #8: FIELD EXPERIENCE IS KING. NEVER SPECULATE ABOUT WHAT WOULD WORK WITH WOMEN, GO OUT AND TEST IT FIRSTHAND.
PARADIGM SHIFT #9: REJECTION DOES NOT EXIST. ALL FAILURE IS FEEDBACK, AND BUILDS YOUR BASE OF REFERENCE EXPERIENCES.
PARADIGM SHIFT #10: BECOME ABUNDANT WITH WOMEN. IT IS THE ULTIMATE SELF-FULFULLING PROPHECY.

FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY:
1- Want sex but have to pretend they don’t to create a non ego threatening narrative to their future beta male husbands
2- Zero accountability to guys they just met
3- Respond to value and emotions in the moment
4- Test guys to see if they’re congruent
5- Exhibit themselves by dancing and spending hours getting ready
6- Want to have fun and pump their own state
7- Desperate for validation and will often have sex for it
8- Simultaneously the most secure and most insecure
9- Tell themselves they go to club to dance, secretly open to meeting the right guy
10- Frustrated that guys can't «just be cool», get hit up all the time but by the wrong guys, also can be oversaturated with cool guys in big cities
11- Open minded to sex at times, harder at other times
12- Lifestyle of a pro hottie

INTERACT AS A MAN TO A WOMAN – INNER GAME
1. Transcend Social Conditioning
2. Cultivate Core Confidence
3. Center Yourself In The Present Moment
4. Draw State From Within
5. Have A Strong Sense Of Reality (who you are, what you value, what vibe, what boundaries, unflinching / unwavering)
6. Feel A High Sense Of Entitlement
7. Walk Through The World With Ease
8. View Sex As “No Big Deal”
9. Addict Yourself To Positivity
10. Assume Value (Be The Buyer Not The Seller)

INTERACT AS A MAN TO A WOMAN – OUTER GAME
1. Master Sub-Communication
2. Dictate The Vibe
3. Communicate Playfully And Free Associate, Not Logically And Thinking Ahead
4. Self-Amuse, Don’t Seek Reactions
5. Use Qualification And Disqualification
6. Assume It’s “On” But Calibrate To Her Feelings
7. Be Clear In Your Intent
8. Have No Agenda Or Outcome
9. Build Up Social Momentum
10. Lead

PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER: THE “HOW TO”
1. Open
2. Create attraction
3. Recognize and pass congruence tests
4. Do an instant date
5. Get physical
6. Get a number
7. Handle logistics
8. Take her home
9. Escalate to sex
10. Bounce in a way that leaves her happy about the experience, choose to see her again casually, or move towards relationship

DIFFERENT STYLES OF PICKUP
1- Minimalist Game (do nothing)
2- Self amused (pump your state in front of her)
3- Hard to get (make her chase)
4- Aggressively sexual (get up in her face and escalate)
5- Cool friendly guy
6- Asshole
7- Short interactions and work the whole club
8- Fast pulls
9- Social circle and lifestyle based
10- Late night street game as people pile out of the club
11- Daytime
12- Online

Final Thoughts: Your Journey
1. Fashion, grooming, style (congruent to your personality and depending on where you live and go out)
2. Gym & Nutrition
3. Reading
4. Sleep
5. Meditation
6. Travel
7. Mastermind Group
8. Mastery Attitudes
9. Outcome, Purpose, Action
10. 30 Day Challenge, True Enjoyment Of The Journey