Soblazner: переводы

→Read your formula for reality change:

→New beliefs + New behaviors = New reality

→Same happens with women.

→Install New Beliefs

→"People are always friendly"

→To Get Girls You Have To Lose Girls

→You might go out at 10pm, start approaching and suck for a while; then, around midnight, you might start a conversation with some amazing girl who likes you but has to go back to her friends and leaves you alone – which makes you irritable because you are left with a phone number instead of a girl. After that, it all goes downhill until the end – with no promising interactions. On other nights, however, you feel on top of the world and everything you touch turns into gold. You have many make outs, connect with girls at a deeper emotional level and you take a girl home

→At other times, guys measure themselves against a standard of perfection they have in their heads. Unless they are performing to that standard, they get a severe blow to their motivation to practice the game. As their mental state shuts down, they inwards into their head, straight into paralysis.

→The rating system ends up controlling your behavior, not the opposite. You should be your master, not the slave of your measuring system. The same applies to the all pervasive good/bad night syndrome. Once the night ends, on the way home, a guy rates the night into a good night or a bad night. His motivation and feelings of self worth will depend on how well he performed. As a result, because nights can go either way depending on the criteria for success followed, he will walk the tight rope every night. Motivation for going out will diminish over time - since talking to women becomes a performance test or an exam.

→Tell a 60 second story about your day. Give it approval. Believe in your heart that it is OK to talk to people about it because it happened during your day. Say that story to a minimum of 20 girls in one night. Don't look for approval when you do it. Some girls will like it, others won't. You need to be OK with all responses, good or bad. Start on the path of giving approval from inside to your own stories. Don't look for your environment to approve of things. If a girl interrupts you with questions, answer her questions and be prepared to go wherever the conversation takes you. For better results, you must not embellish your story with grandiose hyperboles or jokes. In other words, don't tell a "cool" story. Tell it like it is. Be OK with whatever feedback you get from random people. Some will find it interesting. Others

→Even if you are talking about your day, and the ordinary events that happened to you up until you arrived at the club, you need to give thorough approval to your story. No matter what! Say: "I woke up this morning. I went to the airport. Bus was late. I grabbed a coffee when I arrived to the terminal. I jumped on the plane. I sat next to a funny looking guy. We talked football". If you judge your story to be boring (you don't approve of it), that's how people relate to it. I want you to approve of it and get excited about it. Because it comes from your unique perspective, it is your story. I want to challenge you to give approval to your worst and tell them to people.

→Get Physical Without Permission

→You will not even notice him there.

→Reality Check.

→You don't need to engage everybody.

→Game recognizes game.

→Quality recognizes quality.

→They had power and authority over you and they knew it.

→They were not afraid to be loud.

→Most guys don't feel good unless they get approval.