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ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:32

Learn how to talk to children about drugs.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:33

It may be weird, but you don't need to learn anything - you just need to try to talk.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:33

It you try, your children will be sure to understand.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:34

Of course, you can do nothing.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:34

In this case your children will listen to other people. Probably even those who take drugs.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:35

And may be even those who sells them.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:39

Try to understand denial (negation).

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:40

In fact, alcohol, and drugs, and crazy appearance, and deafening noise - these are different ways of display of teenage denial.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:41

Denial is always bad.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:44

Every teenager, expressing his own "Ego", sets him off against his parents.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:45

Thereby, they form their own significance. You experienced this.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:46

They experience this now.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:47

Whether we like it or not - this world is build up in this way, and we can't change it.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:48

The real problems begin when a teenager chooses the way of denial, which does deep/real/big harm for them.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:58

It's the real nature of drugs.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:58

Do not be desperate.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 16:59

When you talk with children about drugs, it seems to you, that they do not hear you/listen to.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:05

Don't believe. Even that you're talking about, means a lot for children.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:05

Inspite of children's reaction, continue. Someday they'll have heard/hear you.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:08

Begin as you wish.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:08

"Why do you think people start to take drugs?"

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:09

"What will you do, if someone suggests you drugs?"

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:09

It doesn't matter how you begin, it's important for children to feel that you really care about it.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:10

Don't try to scare them, speak calmly and clearly.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:10

"Drugs - is the way to hurt you."

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:11

Some "pro" and "contra".

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:11

Probably, the most important "pro" is to speak from the bottom of your heart.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:11

The most important "Contra" - do not try to soliloquize.
You don't need to threaten. You don't need to put yourself on a pedestal. Don't try to bring them to book/make them answer on a question whether he tried drugs or not.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:16

If you have the real reasons to think that your child is taking drugs - and there're possible symptoms, - it's another case.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:17

Then you need to do something decidedly and without any compromise.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:18

But now - try just to talk.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:19

They need/have to know, what you personally think about it.

ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:19

And what you care about.

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ichuly 18.10.12 в 17:21