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Learn how to talk to children about drugs.

It may be weird, but you don't need to learn anything - you just need to try to talk.

It you try, your children will be sure to understand.

Of course, you can do nothing.

In this case your children will listen to other people. Probably even those who take drugs.

And may be even those who sells them.

Try to understand denial (negation).

In fact, alcohol, and drugs, and crazy appearance, and deafening noise - these are different ways of display of teenage denial.

Denial is always bad.

Every teenager, expressing his own "Ego", sets him off against his parents.

Thereby, they form their own significance. You experienced this.

They experience this now.

Whether we like it or not - this world is build up in this way, and we can't change it.

The real problems begin when a teenager chooses the way of denial, which does deep/real/big harm for them.

It's the real nature of drugs.

Do not be desperate.

When you talk with children about drugs, it seems to you, that they do not hear you/listen to.

Don't believe. Even that you're talking about, means a lot for children.

Inspite of children's reaction, continue. Someday they'll have heard/hear you.

Begin as you wish.

"Why do you think people start to take drugs?"

"What will you do, if someone suggests you drugs?"

It doesn't matter how you begin, it's important for children to feel that you really care about it.

Don't try to scare them, speak calmly and clearly.

"Drugs - is the way to hurt you."

Some "pro" and "contra".

Probably, the most important "pro" is to speak from the bottom of your heart.

The most important "Contra" - do not try to soliloquize.
You don't need to threaten. You don't need to put yourself on a pedestal. Don't try to bring them to book/make them answer on a question whether he tried drugs or not.

If you have the real reasons to think that your child is taking drugs - and there're possible symptoms, - it's another case.

Then you need to do something decidedly and without any compromise.

But now - try just to talk.

They need/have to know, what you personally think about it.

And what you care about.

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